Welcome to Writing at the Table! A blog about navigating the sticky (sometimes literally) terrain of mothering and writing.

Who I am, what I’ve done, and what’s next

My name is Dana Schwartz and I’m a writer, reader, feminist, and mother.

I’m also a freelancer. Currently I’m accepting manuscripts as well as other write-for-hire opportunities, such as website content creator and corporate marketing work.

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me at my rather antiquated but perfectly serviceable email address: danaheatherschwartz@yahoo.com or find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danahschwartz

Dana on the driveway

Me, literally hugging a book

Some background info, also know as a brief history

After graduating college with a BA in English Literature, I began my professional life working in book publishing, including St. Martin’s Press, Bookreporter.com, and HarperCollins Children’s Books. Briefly, I worked at MTV Networks, editing and managing their internal employee magazine, before leaving to freelance and pursue a Master’s in Fine Arts at Fairleigh Dickinson University. During this time I also became a certified self-defense instructor, teaching in many private schools and organizations in the tri-state area.

My childhood dream

Dana in the box

I’ve wanted to be a writer for as long as I can remember, probably soon after I became a reader. My parents used to let me read at the dinner table, a gesture I used to take for granted, and now realize this was one of their many gifts. I’m so fortunate that they not only encouraged my love of reading, but also my desire to become a writer.

My mom died years ago, but I know she was proud of my passion for storytelling, and wanted me to achieve my dream of publishing. Just weeks after her death, I received news about my first publication – a short story in a literary journal. Since then I’ve been published in other literary journals and anthologies, as well as online. I also performed an essay inspired by her at Listen to Your Mother in 2015, and another inspired by my daughter in 2017.

These days I still read at the table whenever I can, and write at my desk – an old wooden table. Some habits you don’t break.

ariel shot desk

The Journey (also, how to write with kids)

I haven’t always been a writing mom. After I had my first child in 2008, I stopped. Not surprising since becoming a mother is all-consuming, but after a year went by I struggled to return to the page. I felt too tired, too overwhelmed. As time went by, I began to wonder something else, something terrible: maybe I wasn’t a writer after all.

The longer I went without, the harder it was to return. I sat on the shore of my life and watched my boat drift away.


I realize now I was scared of failing. So I quit, thinking it would hurt less. But I was wrong. It was worse. Not writing made me brittle, angry, and short-fused. I became a miserable person, partner, and mother.

non writing writer

For a while I didn’t know how to fix myself, how to find happiness and peace amid the chaos and monotony of motherhood. I felt guilty for not enjoying the moment more. After my daughter was diagnosed with celiac disease at age three, I started a blog called celiac kiddo. It helped to write about our struggle and our gluten free journey – it helped to write. But I still hadn’t returned to my fiction roots.

Then one day, soon after my second child turned one, I started a story that had long simmered inside me. And for the first time since becoming a mom, I didn’t stop. I set aside time, I hired a babysitter. I made writing a priority.

Writing is a commitment, whether you have a family or not. There are days when I feel too tired, too brain drained to open my computer. Some days I let my boat drift away. But I try not to let it get too far. Nowadays I write whenever I can, as often as I can.

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  3. Dana, I loved reading your journey here -thanks for letting us into your head and heart. You have such a graceful voice. And what a perfect quote by Kafka! I’m so glad we’ve met in your re-location! “Pens up!” (or should I say “fingers poised!”). Here’s to getting the stories on paper that we need to pour out and share with the world!
    P.S. Here’s my personal writing journey too http://www.elementtrilogy.com/writers-corner/5403-2/

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    • Thank you so much Donna! You’ve been so generous with advice and support, I’m super grateful to have connected with you, on an offline πŸ™‚


  4. best of luck with your new blog! You will find as your children get older and more independent that you have more time to do the things you like to do.


    • Thank you so much! I suspect as much and I bet when they’re older and too busy to hang out with me, I’ll look back at this hectic time with bittersweet nostalgia.


  5. As you know, you had me at hello. I am throughly committing to enjoying every drop of this blog, henceforth. (I recently had the SAME discovery about the word “biweekly” when hiring a service to come clean my house (every other week, unfortunately). ) Seriously can’t get enough, let’s get started. πŸ™‚


    • You are the dearest Jen, thank you for believing in me from afar in a way that feels so close up πŸ™‚ And thanks for letting me borrow your beautiful daughter’s name for my novel in progress… it’s really working out.

      Hilarious about biweekly!! Kind of a bummer that it means every other week for cleaning purposes, ha.


  6. Lovely to meet you. Thanks for commenting on my blog earlier, it sounds like we are in a very similar writing/mothering boat! If you ever fancy joining in my writing linky – ‘What I’m Writing’ – which I co-host on a Tuesday you’d be very welcome (it’s on my blog bi-weekly – ha! by which I mean ‘once every two weeks’ as it alternates between my blog and my co-host’s). It has a lovely supportive community of writers/bloggers (who tend to be mothers too) linking up. No pressure though – I know what it’s like trying to find the time for all the writing/blogging/mothering malarky. I’ll definitely be following your blog and I look forward to reading more! xx


    • Hi Maddy, thanks so much for stopping by and for your comment! I’d love to join your link up, it would be a fun way to motivate me to work on my novel πŸ™‚

      I’m so happy to have found your blog too!


    • Justine, I’m so happy you found me and vice versa. This is exactly why I started this blog. I love finding kindred writing spirits! Looking forward to reading more of your words.


  7. HI Dana,
    I saw your quote that Dina Relles used on her blog’s New Year post, and it so very much captured the way I feel, that I just had to go find you and your blog. : ) I’m so glad I did! I loved your post about the word Focus. That is a word I’ve been working on incorporating for some time now. Like you, I find myself up at all strange hours doing just what you described. I’m in the process of getting my own blog up and running. I’m very much looking forward to reading more of yours. : ) Thank you for your beautiful words and inspiration!


    • Hi Mimi, thank you so much for the kind words! I’m glad that quote spoke to you, it’s something I have to repeat to myself when I get frustrated with my turtle pace.

      I am really liking “focus” so far, unlike some years when I’ve already forgotten the word by mid-month πŸ™‚ It’s easy to remember and it applies to so much.

      I am looking forward to visiting your blog! Please ket me know when it’s up and running.


  8. Hi Dana – Count me in. I’m rooting for you. For all of us. I recall writing when my daughter was newborn–sleeping across my arms while I tapped on the keyboard. (She’s now 27.) I let go of writing for several years, then took it up again when she was about five (I was also a single parent by then.) I wrote Firebird, which became my first published novel, between 4 and 6 in the morning, before heading off to daycare and then to my teaching job. I look back now and wonder how I ever did it, but I did, and so will you.


    • Janice, thank you so much for your comment! I can’t tell you how invaluable that article you wrote about the mid-novel slump was to me. Suddenly I didn’t feel hopeless anymore, or alone in my struggles.

      I love the story of your baby in your arms as you typed, and I’m always amazed by the willpower of writers to get up in the predawn hours. So far, I haven’t been able to make that happen, but once my toddler son sleeps more soundly, then perhaps I will give that a try.

      Thank you again. This comment made my day.


  9. Again, very glad to have found you. I have just swam out to my boat- and it’s taken a long time. After having a baby and losing my husband within two years…and after blogging about that whole process for a few years, I am finally returning to my roots in creative nonfiction. I love the analogy: “I sat on the shore of my life and watched my boat drift away. The further it went, the longer the swim to retrieve it,” as well as the Kafka quote. As my therapist told me a few months ago, “It’s not that you’d like to write…you can’t afford not to.”

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    • Very glad to have found you too! Yes, the boat metaphor feels so accurate to me. Every time it drifts away I have to work twice as hard to swim to it, but I keep on because, like your therapist said, I can’t afford not to.

      Keep on writing and I’ll keep on reading. Looking forward to more of your words.


  10. Hi! Thanks for the follow. You’re lucky you got acquainted with your passion early on, I bet it makes a whole lot of difference to the quality of life. It’ll be interesting to read about how you manage so many things, and do justice to each. Its funny I read about biweekly on your page today, I JUST made an ambiguous deal with a friend using ‘biweekly’ :p hahaha… That table/desk looks amazing by the way, we don’t see such pieces here often. Good luck with your writing!


    • Thanks so much Desi, any friend of Kath’s is a friend of mine πŸ™‚

      Isn’t it bizarre about “biweekly” having two meanings? I feel like the dictionary should make up it’s mind! Glad to have found you and your blog.

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  11. Thank you for visiting my blog – which in turn made me come and check out your blog, and I’m glad I did. I’ve always wondered about bi-weekly… especially with English being my second language. I love how the meaning really fits perfectly: sometime’s it’s twice a week and sometimes just every other week.
    i’m glad you found your way back to writing, and I am looking forward to reading some of your fiction!

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    • Thanks so much Kerstin! I was totally drawn in by your blog post title, “About Wanting it Bad Enough” from a comment of yours on another site. I love finding new blogs that way πŸ™‚ Isn’t that so perfect about biweekly? I couldn’t have picked a more apt term for my rather sporadic blogging lifestyle.


  12. So glad I found your blog! I’m a fellow mother/writer/blogger who has been struggling to reclaim her writing and voice since tumbling down the well of motherhood last year. While the blog world is filled with moms who like to journal/blog, it’s refreshing to see the other side, which is writers who have now become mothers.

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    • Rachel, I’m glad we found each other! I love your blog, and would’ve gobbled it up when I was a new mom, and will still gobble it up now that I am an old mom (ha). Well, not old, but a bit more seasoned, since my kids are 7 and 3. I like how you describe this: “writers who have now become mothers” which is exactly what happened to us both. Happy to be on this crazy journey with you!


  13. Hello Dana! I am looking forward to follow your blog. I would like to be one of those who back you up. I have four adult children. I had an untreated maternity depression after the first child. I have worked for many years as a health visitor a job where you advise parents with new born babies and follow them the first year or so. I am preparing a post that I will link up with your post on the subject.


  14. Glad to meet you, Dana! Can’t wait to get back here and read a little bit. Thank you for following me too! I’m very excited to see what you have here!

    All my best.


  15. The boat adrift metaphor is perfect! Some times I need to take another boat to go get mine! Which is kind of why I follow good writers. Like you. Thanks!


    • Thank you so much for stopping by and for your lovely comment, Jim! The boat metaphor is one I return to again and again, in fact, right now, the boat of my novel is quite adrift πŸ™‚ I am going to have to swim a while to get it back. But I know I can get there, because I’ve done it before.

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  16. Just follow your heart Dana, if it feels right, your on your path.
    If your in a job you don’t like it is a drag to just get up of a morning. If you can’t wait to get there, your following your heart.
    Unless of course you are doing it out of fear, the expectations of others or yourself.
    Choose, and be happy πŸ™‚


    • Thank you so much Dawn! I love these awards, it’s such a kind and generous way to support fellow bloggers πŸ™‚ I used to do them whenever I got nominated (I used to have a different blog, before this), but now I don’t always get to it, but please know the thought is greatly appreciated. I also loved reading your answers!


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